Dating While Asian: 4 Ways Around Roadblocks

Effy StonemOnline Dating, Real-Life Situations0 Comments

An Asian man sits on a bench holding a tablet

Ask an Asian man about his experiences dating online, and he’ll likely mention several unique dating challenges. Compared to Black, white, and Latino men, OkCupid’s data on race and attraction suggests that Asian men receive significantly fewer matches and messages from women. Here’s how Asian men can find a mate online in today’s dating climate: 1. Emphasize your interests Alan … Read More

How to write your way to a better sex life [UPDATED]

Effy StonemCommunication Skills, Online Dating0 Comments

Are you Esteban, too? Photo credit: Ramit Sethi

If you subscribe to Ramit Sethi, you probably saw his email today called “Writing your way to a better sex life.” Ramit’s copywriter rewrote this guy’s profile and got him 4 times the number of dates almost instantly. Long story short: Ramit’s employee “Esteban” is a smart, caring, funny guy, but he wasn’t getting many dates. Why? He wasn’t presenting himself the right way in his … Read More